Hi, I’m Jess.

Jessica Hole is a woman with vibrant purple and pink hair, wearing glasses, a black top, and a maroon jacket, standing outdoors with pink flowering trees in the background.

I provide therapy to children, teens, families, and couples in Eugene, Oregon.

Sessions With Me

I believe change happens through the authentic relationship between the client(s) and myself. I will show up to sessions with my colored hair and tea. The therapy space is yours and you’re welcome to ask me questions. I collaborate with clients to create our goals for therapy and this is our thread/focus for each session.

Couples & Relational Therapy

I provide relational work with couples, polyamorous configurations, or families. I work alongside clients to increase understanding of the stuck patterns they have created and how to change those patterns to increase connection and understanding. I utilize a mixture of Gottman Therapy and Emotionally Focused Therapy.

Services Offered

Child & Teen Therapy

I offer sessions with a mixture of child directive play therapy, art therapy, and talk therapy to provide a space where clients are comfortable processing in accordance with their development. I involve parents, caregivers, and families in session depending on age and the goals of therapy.

Therapy Topic Specializations

Couples & relational Therapy

  • High conflict/inability to communicate or feel heard

  • Infidelity 

  • Family Planning, IUI/IVF

  • Parenting

  • Roles in the relationship

  • Emotional and physical intimacy

  • Future goals and values 

Child & Teen Therapy

  • Adjustments with school - going into middle school, high school, or college

  • Queer/LGBTQIA+ experiences

  • Understanding the self and identity building 

  • Neurodiversity and how it impacts school, family, and relational systems

  • Processing social and family interactions 

  • Emotional processing and regulation

Get in Touch!

Schedule a free 15 minute consultation to discuss your hopes for session, scheduling, and any questions.